Finding Mentorship in Soccer

This article was written by Ben Martino, a 21-year-old professional soccer player who serves as a goalkeeper for Nashville SC in MLS. Ben made his USL Championship debut with the Philadelphia Union II as an Academy player at the age of 17 in July 2020. Additionally, he played for Virginia Tech at the collegiate level, concluding his career as the Hokies' captain.

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In the world of soccer, mentorship plays a crucial role in the development of players. Having someone to guide you, inspire you, and provide valuable insights can make a world of difference. I had the opportunity to share my thoughts on the importance of finding a mentor within your soccer team or coaching staff.

The Impact of a Great Mentor

I found a great mentor in Hunter Gilstrap while growing up in Pittsburgh. What made Hunter an exceptional mentor was his ability to see potential in me and his willingness to push me. Hunter was someone who demanded the highest standards, yet also created a safe space for making mistakes and learning from them. This balance is crucial within a training environment.

Relatability is Key

When looking for a mentor within your soccer team, relatability is essential. It's all about the connection, whether you relate to the person's experiences within the sport when they were your age or if you just get along with them well and feel comfortable with them. In soccer, this connection can be a game-changer.

Building a Mentorship Relationship

So, how should players approach a potential mentor and establish that mentoring relationship? My advice is straightforward—never stop asking questions. I encourage players to engage in constructive conversations with coaches and staff members. Over time, players tend to naturally gravitate towards a specific mentor with whom they work well and feel comfortable taking the relationship further.

Maximizing the Benefits

Once you've identified a mentor, the next step is to maximize the benefits and learning from this relationship. Mentors offer invaluable experience and lessons. They've likely encountered situations similar to what you're going through, and their guidance is priceless. To make the most of this relationship, it's important to be inquisitive and learn from their careers, embracing their perspectives and criticism.

Seeking Mentorship: My Advice

For soccer players seeking mentorship within their teams, my advice is clear: Don't be afraid to approach your coaching staff. Coaches are there to help you improve. Engage in open conversations with them about your development in the sport and your life outside of soccer. These discussions are crucial, and your coaches will be more than willing to assist you on your journey.

In the world of soccer, mentorship is a powerful tool for advancement. It's about finding someone who not only guides your soccer career but also contributes to your personal growth. Embrace the opportunity to connect with mentors who can inspire, challenge, and shape your future in the beautiful game.